Ageing Is Not the Problem, Feeling Old Is: A Design Argument
The Problem Is Not Ageing
There is a particular kind of invisibility that descends on a person the moment they reach for a walker. It isn’t the walker itself it’s what it announces. In Indian homes, where identity is woven into the ability to fulfil one’s role to move through the kitchen unassisted, to use the bathroom without calling for help, assistive objects carry a weight that far exceeds their physical form. In the eyes of many users, they are markers of a life in retreat. The problem, we came to believe, is a design culture that has surrounded ageing with clinical aesthetics and institutional logic. Inloo became the evidence for a larger argument: that care can be embedded invisibly into everyday life through design, when that design is practised with empathy.What We Learned by Watching

Solving the Function Problem and Missing the Dignity One
Our first working prototype, built in early 2021, worked mechanically. Users told us the support felt “natural,” not like assistance but like a feature of the toilet itself. That language mattered; it meant the product had crossed into invisibility. But the same prototype had a visible mechanism and several users said they wouldn’t be comfortable with it in a shared bathroom or one visible to guests. One participant put it plainly: it looked “like something from a hospital.” We’d solved the functional problem and failed the dignity one. The iterations that followed focused almost entirely on that failure. We worked through several formal revisions until participants started describing the product as looking “like a premium toilet seat” rather than an assistive device.
Solving the Function Problem and Missing the Dignity One
Our first working prototype, built in early 2021, worked mechanically. Users told us the support felt “natural,” not like assistance but like a feature of the toilet itself. That language mattered; it meant the product had crossed into invisibility. But the same prototype had a visible mechanism and several users said they wouldn’t be comfortable with it in a shared bathroom or one visible to guests. One participant put it plainly: it looked “like something from a hospital.” We’d solved the functional problem and failed the dignity one. The iterations that followed focused almost entirely on that failure. We worked through several formal revisions until participants started describing the product as looking “like a premium toilet seat” rather than an assistive device.Why the Framing Was the Point
Products designed to look like consumer objects rather than medical equipment don’t just serve the person using them. Over time, they shift how ageing itself is understood culturally, not just individually. Designing Inloo as a lifestyle product rather than a medical device was never just a marketing choice. It was an argument about what dignity requires. Independence where the ability to manage your own body in your own home without asking for help isn’t a luxury. Our field research told us, repeatedly, that it’s the foundation of how people relate to their families and to their own ageing. Design that protects that independence isn’t comfort design. It’s design justice. We designed Inloo for our grandparents. We’re designing House of Tomorrow for our future selves.About Authors
Aishwarya Edakhe
Architect (2016) | International Masters In Interior Architectural Design, CEPT University (2019)
Co-Founder & Design Researcher at House Of Tomorrow
https://www.linkedin.com/in/aishwaryaedakhe/
A design strategist and educator working at the intersection of research, systems thinking and human-centred innovation. Her work spans product innovation, startup development and design research, with a particular focus on translating ethnographic insight into scalable design frameworks. Building design systems for inclusivity and longevity of the ageing Indian population.
Shagun Malavia
Mechanical Engineer, (2016) | Masters in Building Products & Systems, CEPT University (2020)
Co-Founder & Principal Designer of Inloo at House Of Tomorrow
https://www.linkedin.com/in/shagunmalavia/
Shagun Malavia is Co-founder of House of Tomorrow and the lead designer of its feature product Inloo. His practice is grounded in assistive industrial design, applied human-centred research with elderly communities and the translation of lived experience into meaningful design interventions. He blends Design thinking, product semiotics and product design to the development of dignity-first assistive products for Indian domestic contexts.

